5 TIPS TO INSTANTLY BECOME MORE CONFIDENT

5 TIPS TO INSTANTLY BECOME MORE CONFIDENT

BE CONFIDENT

Just like any muscle on your body, our mental strength level can be improved over time when you make use of a few key points. These are my top 5 rules to gaining instant confidence.

1: EXTERNAL APPEARANCE:

Be Stud

"You shouldn't judge a book by its cover", well to be honest a lot of human beings do judge you by your cover And that's Why you should care about Dressing Smart, you should care about grooming yourself,i.e are you looking clean or not. You should even care about Your Body odour like your mouth odour or how you smell, you should apply a little bit of Perfume.

Once you will cover all these points, you will cover your External Appearance game. and this is when we can move on to the Internal Appearance. As much as confidence is how to look on the outside, confidence is how you feel about yourself on the inside.

2: POSITIVITY & HAPPINESS:

Be Happy always

    Human Beings are naturally drawn a smile and happiness. Every single room you go into, every single conversation you enter, go with positivity and happiness. The Moment you bring positivity and Happiness into a conversation, it just makes the person you are talking to, get into some kind of comfort zone. You do the job of becoming Happy and little more positive. Bring that into a conversation, and you will automatically become more confident.

3: BODY LANGUAGE:

Body-language defines you..

One factor that a lot of people don't focus on is a correct BODY LANGUAGE. Even if you are an internally confident person, sometimes the wrong body language can give out a wrong Signal. So there are 4 rules for a correct Body language.

• NO SLOUCHING:

Don't Slouch and walk around, don't slouch while talking to a person. Keep your back erect, keep it straight and convey confidence.

• NO CLOSE BODY LANGUAGE:

Whenever you are talking with any person, don't fidget with your fingers. Never ever fold your arms and talk to other human beings, it conveys that you are not interested in the conversation.

• CONSTANT EYE CONTACT:

While you are in Conversation, look at the eyes of the person you are talking to. Don't look down, don't look around.

• FACE PEOPLE:

When you are talking to a person, you should face towards them. You shouldn't angle your body away from them, which makes other people feel like you are not comfortable with them. So never do that.

4: SUBTRACT COMPARISON & ADD CURIOSITY:

The biggest reason that people feel under-confident, is because they constantly in a state of comparison. They are always worried about what are other people will think about them, and makes you feel Underconfident. So in every situation, you should treat yourself as a king/queen.

   "YOU are CONFIDENT, YOU are PERFECT and YOU are NO less than anyone else you talk to".so always Keep your self-perception active in your mind.

Secondly, you should ADD CURIOSITY to your conversation, just because you are king or queen, doesn't means the other person is any less than you. Subtract comparison but add curiosity. If you are in conversation with anyone then be curious about what they are saying, be interested in the conversation.
If they express their opinion on a topic, feel free to express your own opinion on the topic as long as it's not a topic about RELIGION, POLITICS, or any NEGATIVES.

And one secret life hack is that if you are ever stuck in conversation, just try asking the other person a Question about what they are talking about if you don't know what else to say.

5:PRACTICE:

PRACTICE makes a Man Perfect

Just like any other life-skills, CONFIDENCE is one of those things that you can build on as time passes. Those 4 above points I Spoke about, Practice those 4 points. If you don't know someone at your workplace or at a Party, go up and talk to them, initiate the conversation. What's the worst that can happen..! they probably won't talk to you much. Then just take a step back, walk away. But remember where ever you are going carry POSITIVENESS, carry LAUGHTER, carry SMILE and carry CONFIDENCE.